"the shame that accompanies these perceived failings of our bodies is often the hardest thing for people to deal with. Our bodies are fallible. Sometimes they don't behave as we would wish them to. But that doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you, or that you're a failure at sex. It just means that you're human and that you have to work with your body and understand it in order to experience sexual pleasure." read the full story . . . .